On my car radio the weather service had just pronounced the official end of the growing season in the Adirondacks and warned that here, further south in New York's Catskill Mountains, the temperature would drop below freezing in Frost Valley, where I would be attending a men's retreat.
At check-in, I was offered the choice to either camp in solitude in a far off field at the edge of the YMCA property or to join in community and conversation in a cabin assigned to other men. I chose the field.
I'm busy enough, for a retired guy. Mondays and Tuesdays I baby-sit for twin grand-daughters. On Wednesdays, I run a men's spirituality group. And every Thursday I participate in our Woodstock Bible Study group. So, given the opportunity, I went into the field, pulled out my sleeping bag, set up my tarp, and gathered wood for a fire.
About half an hour after darkness fell, ten or so guys came up the trail. They'd seen the fire, and were gathered to it, the way that seekers have always gathered for the warmth of fellowship and for the fire light that has always set the stage for the telling of stories.